BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM,LOVE YOURSELF

One of the most powerful lessons in my life was the awareness that loving myself is very key to my happiness and emotional well-being.
It is a fact that many people are not even aware that loving ourselves is a powerful force in our lives and can be used to remedy many heartaches and pain. It gives us clarity of mind and motivation to be a better person and achieve greater things for ourselves, our mind, and our body.
Before now I used to complain about so many thing about myself,Untill I realise that I had no
choice but to take myself the Way I found it,be happy about who I am,tell myself that I am the best person ever created,love myself and then find new way to improve myself.

Loving yourself is not to be confused with being self-centered or narcissistic which basically means being engrossed with oneself and one's own affairs. It is not about being egoistical and conceited. There is a huge difference between these two.

You need to know that when you love yourself you will feel connected with the inner beautiful person that you are inside. We are all a being of light but that light will not be bright if you fail to spark it and give it life. To give it life is to give it love and when love flows within you, you will begin the process of loving yourself.
Understand this, when you do not love yourself enough or love yourself first, you give permission for negative or unhappy things to happen to you.
Several symptoms to look out for when you need to love yourself more:

:: When you stay in an abusive relationship and continue to accept abuse and hostility. You mistake this to be heroic act to safeguard the family unit, when in reality you are just being insecured. Because you don't love yourself enough you disallow yourself to see things for what When you solve your problems by taking drugs, or getting yourself drunk.
::When you do not love yourself enough, you allow for these self-abuses for they are nothing more than just that. Be aware that your lack of self-love leads you to self-destruction.

:: When you get to be fat and ugly and you don't like how you feel about it. If you love yourself well enough, your appearance and health will be important to you. When you begin to love yourself you will begin to respect your body and your health.

Understand this, your soul is sacred, honour it. Once you know how to love yourself and love yourself first, you will be guided to make the right decisions, take responsibility for your life, achieve clarity of mind and peace of heart.

"You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.” - Anonymous quote.

It has nothing to do with not loving other people or not taking responsibility or making sacrifices for others. Your responsibilities towards other do not change. What needs to change is your attitude and responsibily to yourself - if you love yourself only then you will truly learn how to love other people. what you truly breed, you will beget the benefits of that love. Make daily affirmation that you love yourself.
So I encourage you to love yourself starting from today,No matter wherever you may be.who ever you are,your career,your background does not count here.It all depend on you.Don't say nobody love you,LOVE yourself first and people will love.Give yourself some love today.
Remember" self help is the best help"
Best luck
Josephson peter
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