BEST QUESTION TO ASK YOURSELF,THAT WILL BRING CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE

I will start by this story enjoy it.
There is this story about a man that went for a walk one day. This man was confronted by a soldier who asked him, “Who are you? Where are you going? Why are you going there?”

This man was so happy that he demanded to know how much the soldier earns. When he was told, the man gladly told the soldier he will pay him twice the amount he earns if only he can be asking him these three questions every day of the week.

These are the three most important questions you need to ask yourself if you want to amount to anything in life. Those who have achieved so much with their lives have at a point asked themselves these questions.

You cannot amount to anything in life if you don’t know yourself. How you see yourself or what you think about yourself, will determine what you will achieve in life. When you see yourself as a creature of purpose, you will be able to live a life of purpose; you will be able to live a life of purpose.

Unfortunately, most people see themselves as a creature of accident, and they look down on themselves. They thought God created them without no special ability or purpose. These thoughts make them live a life of frustration and daily struggle.

For this set of people, the solution is to see themselves as a winner instead of a loser. We all need to see ourselves in the light God see us. According to Josh McDowell, a healthy self-image is seeing yourself as God sees you. When you see yourself as God see you, there will be no limit to what you can achieve in life.

For you to get to a destination you need to know exactly where you are going. It is unfortunate that so many people are living but do not have an idea of where they are going in life. A visionless life is a life that will be full of frustration.

When you have an idea of where you are going, the journey will be very easy for you and you won’t mind all the obstacles you will have to overcome. You cannot reach a place you don’t have an idea of. For you to attain any height in life, you need to have an idea of where you are going and what you want to achieve.

When you have a vision, do you know why you want to achieve it? You must know that your vision is not complete if you don’t have an idea why you want to achieve it. What purpose are you going to fulfill by achieving your vision? It is not possible for you to achieve your vision if you are not clear about why you want to achieve it. It is like going for a job interview and asked why you want the job. If you cannot state clearly why you want the job, it may be impossible for you to get the job.

Dear friend, do you know who you are? Do you know where you are going in life? Why are you going to that destination? If you are not sure of the answers you will give to these questions, it is NEVER too late. Now is the time to sit yourself down and plan your life based on these questions.

To your success
Josephson peter

YOU WILL MAKE IT

This article was originally written by
Adebola oni

SUCCESS AND MONEY,10 WAYS TO ATTRACT WEALTH

Many creative people have a bad attitude about making money. When it comes to talking about wealth and prosperity, they look at you like you’re from Mars.

Well, I’ll let you in on a little secret.

The purpose of creative art is..to inspire. Wrong. The purpose of all creativity is to make money.
Oh, I can hear some of you cringe at the thought. And that’s just it. Your thoughts about money are, well ­ let me put it this way ­ they’re not bringing in much dough. Most importantly, your thoughts about suffering for your art are not allowing you to develop the full measure of your gifts.

I’m not saying that art should not be inspiring. All great art is. Just that it has to bring in a good income. An inspiring income
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Why not admit right now that having money, and I mean a lot of money, eliminates all worries and stress. No more energy wasted on how you’re going to pay those bills. No more creative energy gone down the drain as you stress out about your debts.

Here are ten ways to attract wealth.
1. First and foremost: Accept the possibility of wealth in your life. This is a big step towards manifesting riches.

2. Figure out what you would do for nothing. All successful people are receiving compensation for doing things that they’d do for nothing. They are getting paid for doing something they truly enjoy. Now that is success.

3. Eliminate self-doubt and criticism. Change the channels, turn down the volume and switch to your inner voice of supreme confidence. Make it play the tune you want to hear.

4. Accept an initial large workload. Don’t quit your current job. Allow it to finance your new road to wealth. You might be burning the midnight oil initially, but that’s just to get you off the ground and running.

5. Bury the hatchet of guilt. Deal with all unresolved emotional hangovers. Bury them and never look back. Otherwise they will drain your valuable creative juices.

6. Simplify your external stimuli. Silence your TV and radio to the point that all they are used for is to enhance your creative life.

7. Slow down. You’ll be far more efficient when you stop rushing around like most people. Your mind won’t be on overload so it can reclaimed and used to envision your new life.

8. Get rid of all your beliefs. Beliefs keep you from experiencing life. They are a blind acceptance of someone else’s experience. Only you can decide what works and what doesn’t. No belief in the world can do this for you.

9. Interrupt all thoughts of fear. They will silence your visions of success. Instead, see that everything is possible. Abundance is infinite. It’s not monopolized. A life of wealth is yours for the taking.

10. Imagine a life where all your needs are fulfilled. Can you feel the result of such a life? In fact, the more you see yourself living fully, the likelier the possibility is of that happening.

It’s the joy and freedom of wealth that we are all seeking. So, never for a moment think that you’re not one of the chosen ones. Break your poverty mentality. That’s all history.
Begin today in your mind’s eye picturing yourself as wealthy. There’s no turning back.

“You must put the whole power of your great soul into every act, however small and commonplace, and so reveal to your family, your friends, and neighbors what you really are.” ­Wallace D. Wattles.

So, find the one thing you just love to do and pay exclusive attention to it. Keep all distractions at bay. Never waver from your love. Your beautiful life is intricately dependent on your careful attention to this one thing.

YOU MUST SUCCEED

HOW TO MANAGE STRESS

We can always find something to be thankful for, no matter what may be the
burden of our wants, or the
special subject of our petitions. Albert Barnes

Look at life as an energy economy game. Each day, ask yourself, Are my energy expenditures (actions, reactions, thoughts, and feelings) productive or nonproductive? During the course of my day, have I accumulated more stress or more peace?Doc Childre and Howard Martin,

Thriving on Stress can be very harmful to everyone without some kind of guide to help them stay in control. Stress is in our everyday life regardless of who we are. Relive stress and learn to stay in control before it takes over your life.

Stress will take control and lead us to many illnesses causing us pain, to make poor decisions and depression that could become extremely risky. With a guide, we can learn how to stay in control and relieve pain, and illness before it is too late.
There are different ways that we can use guides to benefit us. One guide is to set goals to help us make better decision on the way we live and function.When setting goals sit back and relax to focus on the things that are stressing you. Write them down along with how you plan to eliminate them to give you relief. By writing your goals on paper, it brings your feeling out in the open making them come alive and more real than just thoughts.

For instance, is your weight stressing you from overeating or not eating enough? Ask yourself; why have you lost control of your diet and how can you change your eating habits for the better? Be honest with your feelings by changing your negative thoughts to being positive.With your goals and results for success in reaching them, you can now keep rereading what you jot down whenever you begin to feel depressed. Use your goals as a guide to become a happier person with yourself and those around you.

Exercise and plans are also good guides to helping you thrive on stress for becoming a happier and healthier person. Making plans and goals for a new exercise program will help you feel better in relieving stress and improving your health. Review your plans and goals often to keep in mind what you must do to achieve your success.Relive stress, restful sleep, energy and pain, are just a few things that you will benefit with using plans and exercise for thriving on stress. When you begin to notice changes in your appearance and overall traits, you will feel at ease because your energy will increase.

Energy is something we all need to thrive on stress and everyday life. Without energy, we do not make good decisions on our diets, our joints and muscles become stiff, and making daily decisions about the way we perform will all start to appear. When the body lacks energy, we often struggle and fail at success.

Reading is another guide people use to thrive on stress. When we read we are learning new things and it helps us to focus on what we are reading instead of focusing on the things that make us feel stressed. By taking time off to walk to the library to find new information on relieving stress, you are taking time out for you.

Time out and reading are both guides to help us benefit on how to thrive on stress.

Using your PC as a guide for thriving on stress is perfect, at work or home. With some time and searching on your PC, you will find download of guides you can use as a director that leads you to thriving on stress. Check out some of the guides online, since some truly work.

Learn to use guides to thriving on stress for a better and healthier life. Researching the Internet and using your local library are both ways to find information on how to relive stress that will benefit you in many ways. Learn the pattern in the guide to thriving on stress to perquisite you.

If you are suffering from stress, it's time to take charge of your life and get your life back and enjoy a brighter, happier future.

HOLD ON

Hold On Tightly To What Is Truly Important In Life
Hold on to faith; it is the source of believingthat all things are possible. It is the fiberand strength of a confident soul.
Hold on to hope; it banishes doubt and enablesattitudes to be positive and cheerful.
Hold on to trust; it is at the core of fruitfulrelationships that are secure and content.
Hold on to love; it is life's greatest gift of all,for it shares, cares and gives meaning to life.
Hold on to family and friends; they are the mostimportant people in your life, and they makethe world a better place. They are your rootsand the beginnings that you grew from;they are the vine that has grown through timeto nourish you, help you on your way,and always remain close by.
Hold on to all that you are and all that you havelearned, for these things are what make you unique.
Don't ignore what you feel and what you believeis right and important; your heart has a wayof speaking louder than your mind.
Hold on to your dreams; achieve them diligentlyand honestly. Never take the easy way orsurrender to deceit.
Remember others on your way,and take time to care for their needs.Enjoy the beauty around you.Have the courage to see things differently and clearly.Make the world a better place one day at a time,and don't let go of the important things thatgive meaning to your life. ~Kelly D. Caron

How to Change Your Behaviours

If you want to change things in your life then you must first change your behaviours. The problem for most people is that they believe changing their behaviour will take years and they want change now. But can change happen in an instant? The simple answer is Yes, it can! Yet because of society’s views on change and our own personal fear change inevitably takes some time for some people. You see, if we change too quickly, by society’s standards, then it means we never really had a problem to begin with.
If you want to change your behaviours the most effective way to do it is to associate extreme and present sensations (or feelings) of displeasure, disgust or hardship to the way you use to behave and enormous and present sensation (or feelings) of joy and achievement to the new behaviour.
There are no simple approaches to behaviour change but no matter which approach you use it all boils down to seven steps and you must go through them all in order to have change you desire. These steps aid us in finding an efficient and empowering way to make the change effective and lasting. Here are the seven steps,
Step 1: Decide What it is You Truly Want.
Many people have a hard time answering this question honestly if at all. Most have no idea what it is they truly want yet they know exactly what it is they don’t want. It is important to always keep in mind that whatever we focus on in life is what we get. So by focusing on the things you dislike or no longer desire to experience you get much more of it, it’s that simple. It is therefore imperative that you decide on what it is you truly want as it will give you something to focus on and move toward.
Be as specific as you possibly can be about what you want. This will give you clarity and the more clarity you have the more energy and power you have to pursue and achieve what you want much quicker. So it’s not enough to say you want a car, no no no you must be more specific and say ‘I want a 2007 BMW 321i sedan, black” that is being more specific.
Step 2: What’s Stopping You from Having it Right Now.
This is so important because if you don’t know what’s standing in your way then you will be running blind towards your goal. You will know what it is you need to overcome or avoid all together. Most of the time whats stopping us from changing is that we tend to think that the change we seek is going to cause us great distress than staying where we are right now. Change can bring about unknowns and that’s a part of what we fear. So think about this very carefully and be honest with yourself.
Step 3: Get Strong enough Reasons Why.
You must find a lot or reasons why you must change now. These reasons will be your motivation and must in part be linked to whatever you think may be stopping you from having what you desire right now. Change is rarely a question of capability, but of motivation. How motivated you are usually determines the actions you are willing to take and how persistent you will be. So it’s not a question of can you do it but rather will you do it or not and this in term boils down to your level of motivation. If you are highly motivated nothing will stop you but if your motivation is low any and every thing will stop or delay your progress. It you put together strong enough reasons to change, we can change in a minute something we have failed to change for years.
You must recognize that for most of us change is predominantly a ‘should’ and not a ‘must’. It may also be a ‘must’, but it’s a ‘must’ for some time in the future (usually the distant future). To create the change we desire now we must create a sense of urgency, as if our lives depend on it, such that we are moved to follow through.
Most of us fear change, we concern ourselves with thoughts like “What if I quit my job and start a business and it fails, I would have lost the sure income I have from my job” it’s common for most people to feel a sense of mixed emotions about change there is the despair and pleasure associated with it and this makes us uncertain as to what to do. The outcome is that we tend not to fully utilise the resources we have available within ourselves to make the changes we desire occur almost as instantaneously as when we are completely committed to changing.
To create the sense of urgency necessary to evoke a change you must associate enormously intense despair to not changing such that you know you must change right now. It is in that moment when you say “that’s it, I’ve had enough” “I will not go on like this another day!”
The strongest reasons you create for yourself that will motivate you is that which comes from inside you. When you are aware of not living up to your own expectations and standards for your life it can be a great motivator. We all want to live and act in accordance with our own vision of ourselves on a consistent basis.
To find other strong and emotional reasons ask questions of yourself. Questions like “what will it cost me if I don’t chang this now?” ‘what is it already costing me emotional, physically, spiritually and financially?”. You should also think of the way it affects your loved ones, and other people you care about, make the distress of not changing feel so intense and real that you will want to take action and change now.
You should also find and answer questions associated with the pleasure you will feel if you change. This will help you to mentally link those positive sensations to the idea of changing. So ask yourself questions like “How much better am I going to feel about myself if I change this today?” “What other things could I accomplish if I made this change right now?”. The important thing here is to get as many reasons as you can and make many of them strong reasons why change is necessary now and not some day in the future. So if you are not moved to make changes right now it’s because you don’t have strong enough reasons.
Step 4: Break out of Your Unhealthy Behaviours.
To get the change we want to see and experience in our lives it’s not enough to know what we want and find strong enough reasons why. You can be extremely motivated to change but if you keep behaving in the same ways doing the same unhealthy things then your life will not change and all you will have is more frustration and despair. Too many people want something different yet we continue to behave in the same manner. Insanity it is said is doing the same thing in the same way expecting a different result.
Consider also the person who wants to create a change because of the distress they are now feeling but they get some benefit from that which they are trying to change. What usually happens to most people is that they subconsciously believe that by maintaining the old behaviour they will something they will not get any other way. At this point they have mixed emotions about changing. It’s like someone who wants to loose weight but they still indulge in eating lots of chocolate because it gives them great comfort. Unconsciously they want the pleasure they get from eating chocolate.
You can do all the right things but if you derive a secondary benefit and it’s too strong, you will most likely go back to your old behaviour. What you must do is to break out of these unhealthy behaviours by getting enough reasons to change and also find a new way to get your needs met. You should also increase the strength and intensity of the reasons why you must change.
Another way you can break out of those unhealthy behaviour is to just stop the behaviour right now, ‘cold turkey’. You simply stop never to return to that behaviour again.
A key element to breaking out of an unhealthy behaviour pattern is time. You can change your behaviour far better if you break the pattern in the moment the behaviour is occurring any later and your efforts will be strained or ineffective.
Step 5: Find or create a new Empowering alternative.
This step is so important step. to gain long-term and long lasting change you must find an alternative way of getting out of despair and into feeling sheer pleasure. This is the reason why most people fail when then try to change and why their attempts are only temporary. So you may have followed the previous steps and also broken those unhealthy behaviours but what will you replace it with? You need to fill the gap with a set of options that will give you the same pleasurable feeling without the negative side effects. So when you decide to stop drinking soda you must come up with a new way or ways to replace the benefits you gained from drinking soda. This could be as simple as taking up body building or concentrating on fitness.
Step 6: Make Your new empowering Alternative consistent.
To make sure that the change you’ve created is consistent and long-lasting first you must rehearse it (the new behaviour) over and over again until it is a set behaviour. All of this must be done with high emotional intensity or else all the repetition in the world will not help you to change.
Next you need to set up a schedule of reinforcement for your new behaviour. You do this by rewarding yourself each time you succeed in engaging the new behaviour. So you don’t wait until you have lost fifty pounds but the moment you can show up in your gym and actually begin exercising you can give yourself pat on the back. You can set up a series of short and long-term goals and as you achieve each of then you immediately reward yourself. If you don’t do this you will begin sooner or later to see every accomplishment as just a drop in the tall bucket of your goal and use it as a reason to go back to your old behaviour. Whenever you continually reinforce a behaviour or emotion it will become an automatic and conditioned response. Anything you fail to reinforce will eventually dissipate.
Step 7: Put the new behaviour to the Test.
In order to be sure that your new behaviour will work in the future you will need to test it. One of the ways to do this you is to imagine for the example, the situation that used to distress you and see if it still distresses you or has the new way of feeling replaced it.
You will also want to test the consequences of your change. What effect will the changes you have made have on those around you. How positive an effect will the changes have on your personal life and you work or business life. You must be sure that the new behaviour is appropriate based on your current beliefs, values and lifestyle.
These seven steps can be used to change almost anything, the key is to use it.

The power of positiveness

Positiveness means maintaining a state of positive expectations about people and situations, including a positive state of energy in your thoughts and emotional patterns. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale's book, The Power of Positive Thinking, was published over 40 years ago and it continues to sell well because it contains such a universal truth: the attitudes we hold help to shape the reality we experience.
Having a positive attitude isn't something you just tack on to your old personality. That positiveness isn't external like a new suit. It comes from deep within you. It has to or it would get wiped out with the first sign of a countervailing negative force. Positiveness is built on having your own positive life philosophy, on knowing what strengths you have, and on surrounding yourself with other sources of positiveness.
Many of us haven't taken the time to consider what our own life philosophy is. If you haven't, it doesn't mean you don't have one. You're just operating from it unconsciously. By life philosophy, I mean, in simple terms, something like: I know I'm here to live up to my potential, make a contribution to society, and have a good time. Someone else might say: I'm here to serve God through being of service to my fellow human beings. Another philosophy might be: I'm here to show others that despite physical handicaps, you can lead a productive life and enjoy what you have.
Your personal philosophy can contain a vision such as: I'm here to save the planet from environmental destruction. Or, I'm a valuable member of a company that's improving the way human beings communicate with one another. Your philosophy acknowledges who you are and what your purpose is for being alive. A truly positive philosophy, one that's motivating, encompasses more than just you. Again, if you haven't formulated one, your unconscious personal philosophy might sound something like: "I'm here to make it through the day, day after day, until I die." Or, "I'm here to grab as much as I can of material possessions and thrills, because you only live once." Having a well-articulated personal philosophy gives you a sense of purpose and it can help you get through rough times as well.
The second aspect of positiveness comes from knowing what strengths you have to build on to achieve that life philosophy. This involves taking a personal inventory about your talents and skills and also what you like to do. Ideally, we'd all like to make a living or spend our time doing what we love. The people who come the closest to that are those who actually take the time to figure out what they love doing. Then you figure out what skills you have and which ones you need and take a step closer to matching your ideal life's work with the reality of your work life.
Having a positive life philosophy and knowing what strengths you have to build on will only get you so far. The third aspect of positiveness is surrounding yourself with other sources of the same energy. Occasionally we hear stories of people who struggle against great odds, prove the naysayers wrong and achieve the nearly impossible. They turn around a defunct company, they stop a highway from going through virgin land, they bring out a new product line in record time, or they beat the odds on terminal cancer.
By definition, they had to have had a positive philosophy to get them there and they had to know what they could do themselves and what they needed to get from others. Those stories rarely mention the fact that those people always had some other source of positive energy outside themselves that kept them going. Most probably it was other people they could rely on for support. Other people who were also positive about their ability to succeed. Perhaps they were also motivated by the example of some historical figure. Perhaps they drew strength from a spiritual source. The point is, they didn't do it alone. They needed to be embedded in some sort of supportive, positive context that recharged them when their own batteries were running low.
Ideally, you surround yourself with the kinds of people who exhibit the positive traits we're talking about. Avoid the two-dimensional folks who tend toward the negative traits we discussed earlier - the ones who see things as either/or, right or wrong, and don't care to entertain any other thoughts. These people don't help recharge, they drain you.
Ever since Dr. Peale introduced his formulation of positive thinking, we've been hearing the notion of "having a positive attitude" from every motivational book and speaker you could name. It's not that we don't need to be reminded once in a while to get out of a negativity rut. We do. But the way "positive attitude" is sometimes presented is like buying a new outfit or getting a haircut. Just go out and do it. How?
I hope in this brief discussion I've given you the beginnings of a deeper understanding of the How. It begins inside you with a positive life philosophy, a positive sense of who you are and what you bring to the table of life. And it requires that you embed yourself in a context of positiveness - to tap sources beyond yourself. If this trait isn't already in your repertoire, then begin here. The trait of positiveness is so attractive, other people will be drawn to you.

BELIEVE THAT ARE WEALTHY,EVEN WHEN THE WEALTH HAVE NOT COME

You are lost if you do not believe that having money is a good thing.
You need the self-confidence and focus to follow your dream and this will be fatally undercut if you have the wrong philosophy of life and money.No amount of effort on your part will overcome a faulty philosophy.
If, deep down, you believe that wealth is a sin or that money is dirty, or wicked then the first step is for you to correct this error or give up all hopes of wealth for you and your family.What is a 'wrong' philosophy with regard to making money?
Anything which could be described as altruistic, socialist, collectivist, communist or any one of its thousand manifestations no matter what the label, no matter what the disguise, no matter what the smoke screen.
Without exception, every self-made millionaire I have met was a rugged individualist. Most of them despised government, although many were clever enough not to say so in public.
And believe me, there were approximately zero socialists amongst them.
A socialist, whatever he calls himself, is someone who believes that brute force should be used to loot from the productive, in order to provide handouts for the unproductive. No matter how you disguise it, or make it look fancy, that's the plain truth of the socialist doctrine.
I believe that it is impossible for you to attempt to get rich if you have some nagging doubt that money is the root of all evil, that Capitalism is bad or that wealth should be divided up amongst the needy. You have surrendered the philosophical high ground if you sign up for any of these positions.
Let me apologize in advance if you find this a little heavy. It is my sincere wish that you read this article and stay with me. Later articles are far easier.The teachings I produce in order to help people have a better life aren't merely plucked from the air, randomly. My views are based on a solid, 'from the ground up' philosophy of life - a thing which few people have in our compromise age of mixed economies.
It is a powerful thing to have a coherent philosophy of life. Without this, you react to life's events with a series of random, mood of the moment responses which are often contradictory and self-defeating. You pick emotions and opinions from an array of ill-considered viewpoints and hand-me-down beliefs.In contrast, a coherent philosophy empowers you. The correct thing to do in all situations becomes obvious - it is merely a question of being strong enough to do it, which is not always so easy!
No thief, no con-man, no criminal will ever come close to stealing the amount of wealth taken from you by force due to bad philosophy. I am, of course, talking about state theft of your life efforts. If you do not believe such theft is wrong, your wealth-generating efforts are doomed.
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change yuor believe today and become rich.
GOODLUCK

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF PERSISTENCE

If you persist you really cannot fail.
While you may fail many times along the way, you have not truly failed until you accept failure. However, if you are truly persistent, failure is a clear indication you are getting closer to success.
How can that be?
Because with each failure comes very valuable knowledge. The knowledge of what DOESN'T work, (this is the basic premise of testing).
Acknowledge failure brings you a step closer to success and you will never look at it the same way again.
Do you have a light in your house? Of course you do. Do have a light in your car? Of course you do. Do you see them in the street, in the shops, airports, hospitals, restaurants, etc, etc? Yes, they are everywhere.
Well, the electric light was borne from one man's irresistible persistence to invent what many said was impossible.
It wasn't easy, thousands of times he failed....thousands!! How many people make it past 3 failures? Most give up after only one. Plenty never even try.
But Thomas A. Edison, the creator of the incandescent light, took each of those failures in his stride.
With the knowledge of what DOESN'T work, each failure took him a step closer to changing the entire world!
We only want to get rich. A much, much easier task.
If persistence can change the world, imagine what it can do for you.
Persistence can be developed through 4 simple steps.
Are you ready?
Pay close attention, these are life skills you should embrace deep within your psyche...practice them whenever you want to rise above your present dilemma...teach them to your children.
The 4 Steps to Developing Persistence
Step 1 Have a definite goal fueled by a burning desire to achieve it.
Step 2 Have a definite plan and continually work at it.
Step 3 Close your mind against all negativity. Do not think about or be discouraged by the negative comments that may come from family, friends and acquaintances.
Step 4 Form a friendship with one or more people who will encourage you to follow through with your plan and achieve your goals.
Personally, I was never taught to persist. Whenever the going got tough I quit.
After years of underachievement, poverty and unhappiness I knew my life philosophy wasn't working. I decided if I ever wanted things to change I needed to change.
So I set about discovering the laws of life known by the very rich and the very happy.
The 4 Steps to Developing Persistence are among the most valuable.
Here's how they can apply to you:
Step 1Have a definite goal backed by a burning desire to achieve it.
- I'm guessing you want to be rich. If you do commit yourself to achieving that goal you are half way there.
Step 2Have a definite plan and continually work at it.
- You must have a plan because without one you are treading water. How many people do you know have goals?
Probably not many, I know because I asked a lot of the people around me what their goals were and most of them just went "...aahhh....dunno".
That's the kind of aimlessness that will see you doing the same unrewarding job for the next 15 years.
Step 3Close your mind against all negativity. Do not think about or be discouraged by the negative comments that may come from family, friends and acquaintances.
- If you know someone who has a habit of discouraging you, don't tell them what you are doing or what your goals are. Wait until you're having some success and then tell them.
Anything they have to say then will either no longer apply or will be seen for what it is: -- An attempt to stop you from rising above the position in life they would prefer to see you occupy! --
Step 4Form a friendship with one or more people who will encourage you to follow through with your plan and achieve your goals.
- If you know people of similar mind then that is fantastic, spend time with them, soak up their positivity.
If not, don't worry because you do not necessarily need to form a personal relationship. Encouragement from the great minds and achievers of our time can be found in books, tapes and CD's.
Jim Rohn is very good, others are Anthony Robbins and Napoleon Hill.
Persistence is a necessary ingredient in any achievement. Obviously it must be, because if you didn't persist you would never finish anything.
The degree of your persistence is actually proportional to the size of the achievement.
It has been a defining characteristic of some of the greatest men and women to ever walk our planet.
Persist!

5 BEST WAY TO KILL PROCRASTINATION

Have things to do but can't get yourself doing it? Tasks, chores, or job in the office that have been left too long? No problem! With just a handful of quick and easy tips you'll be moving in the right direction in no time at all.

BREAK IT DOWN
Tackling projects all at once is a sure way to keep things from getting done. Break your tasks down into manageable steps. Entire house need cleaning? Just take it one room at a time. Need to organize and file your taxes? Break them down into smaller categories - gathering forms, listing deductions, finding receipts, etc.

GET HELP
If you can't find a way to get yourself to follow through, find someone who can. This tip can work in two ways. First, you can find a friend or family member who can tackle the job with you, cutting the work in half. Get the kids to help with chores or invite a friend on the morning run you've been skipping.

Your other option is reaching out to the people who are good at motivating you to get moving. Explain your procrastination frustration and see if they can work their magic. Either way you go, be sure to return the favor; if the procrastination bug ends up biting them, be the first to jump in and lend a hand.

ASK "WHY"
Why are you putting it off? If you can get to the heart of your procrastination, you may be able to find a different approach to reach the same result. For instance, if you've been putting off studying for an exam because you get too distracted at home, change up the routine and head to the coffee shop or bookstore.

JUST SKIP IT
Looking for the cause of your procrastination has another benefit: the thing might just be worth putting off. Ask yourself, "Does it really have to be taken care of right now?" or, "Does it have to be taken care of at all?"

If you've been putting something off time and again, there's a chance it doesn't need to be done now - or ever. But this only works with to-do's low on your priority list. If you know it needs to get done sooner than later, sometimes the best advice is to...

JUST DO IT
Have you ever thought about putting something off for so long that you could have actually taken care of it in half the time? If you know it has to be done, don't waste your precious time worrying or stressing out about it. Don't waste any time "thinking" about it. Just get up and start.

If the office needs organizing, get up and do it. If the checkbook needs balancing, open the book and balance. Don't fall into the trap of over thinking things and making a mountain out of a molehill. If you know it needs to be done, decide then and there to clear your mind and get your body moving!

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YOU MUST SUCCESSED

HOW TO GET UP WHEN YOU ARE FALLING

HERE I WILL SHOW YOU FIVE STEP ON HOW
TO STAND FIRM AGAIN WHEN FALLING


5 Steps to a Better Attitude

We all get feeling down once in a while. Here are a FIVE tips to help you get back up quickly.

1. Practice upbeat communication! Make an effort to greet people in a positive way because people typically reflect the tone of your greeting back to you.

2. Learn something new and interesting! Develop a new hobby or learn how to do something you have always been interested in. You'll be amazed at how much more exciting life is when you are involved in something interesting.

3. Act positive! Have you ever noticed that if you mope around the house, acting tired and depressed, you feel even more tired and depressed? But if you get up and act enthusiastic about life, even if it is only an act at first, pretty soon, you will feel enthusiastic. In other words, fake it until it becomes true. Shakespeare said it more eloquently, when he counseled, "assume a virtue, if you have it not" (Hamlet 3:4). Do this: when you wake up tomorrow morning, jump out of bed and say, "I feel great! It's a great day to be alive!" Say it with conviction, and in no time it will be a great day. Of course you will feel a little silly, that's OK. It sure beats dragging out of bed mumbling, "today's going to be another lousy day just like yesterday."

4. Look for the Good! Make a conscious decision to look for the positive. Abraham Lincoln once said, "Most people are about as happy as they decide to be." If you look around, you will discover that everyone has challenges and heartbreaks; and everyone has good things in their life. The issue is not the problem--everyone has problems of one type or another--it is our reaction to the problem. Will you choose to respond positively, no matter what life hands you, and then focus on the good things that are happening? Or, will you choose to react negatively, and focus on what's wrong? The decision is yours.

5. Give yourself a break! Remember, YOU are the only one who can help your attitude. You cannot depend on other people or changing circumstances to get you out of the dumps. Take time to give yourself the break you deserve. Stop criticizing yourself or blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong. Remember, you are doing some things right too!

Follow these 5 simple ideas and watch your attitude (and your altitude) soar